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 How To
Tell Your Child You Are Moving
Most children have some—or
a lot—of "natural explorer" in them. Appeal to that explorer side when
telling kids that the family is moving and you'll help them view the
move as an experience that can lead to exciting discoveries.
Here you'll find moving advice for
telling your
younger children
(up to age 9) and
pre-teens and teens (age 10 and older). Naturally, you know your children and their
personalities best. Adapt these suggestions to suit your kids.
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Here is moving advice
that experts recommand for all ages : |
1. Tell your kids about the move as soon as
possible.
It's natural to assume that the less time kids
have to think about a move, the easier it will be for them. Experts say
it's the opposite. Children need time to get used to the idea of moving.
Don't put off telling them.
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2. Welcome their questions.
Openness will go a long way toward helping
your kids feel comfortable with the move. It's okay if you can't answer
all their questions right now. What they ask will give you an idea of
how they're feeling—excited or uneasy. And some questions may offer an
ideal way to get them involved in the move process immediately, such as
suggesting they get online to investigate the new community
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3. Be positive about the move.
Your attitude will influence your children's.
Dread the move and it will seem dreadful to them too. Be enthusiastic
and positive about the new experiences and opportunities in store, and
your children are more likely to feel the same way.
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4. Let them know they can help with the move.
This is a good time to emphasize that this is a
family event and everyone will be part of planning, packing and perhaps
choosing the new home. Hand out the printable
Moving Checklists to start
them thinking of things they can do and how to get ready for the move.
Assure them that their contributions will be valued. |
